Congregation of the Mission: Institutes

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Sixth Annual Meeting of COVIAM Formators

Summary Points of Discussions: First Week

A.  What is it about our love for the poor that we wish to communicate to our students?

1.  We should obtain our bread after sweating as Vincent urges us.
2.  We should share what we have and not rely on outside assistance
3.  We should tell the poor they are our partners.
4.  We should live in poverty ourselves with them.  This should be experienced in formation for example in doing manual.
5.  We should accept mortification as a life constraint.
6.  You need to broaden your horizons to take the whole picture of poverty.
7.  You should not deny your poor origins.
8.  You should live and be committed to living a simple lifestyle.
9.  You should know the experience of Vincent, know how life has changed and be
     as concerned as he was about those the world considers disposable.
10. We should work as the family of St. Vincent DePaul.
11.  We should always emphasize practical service.
12.  We should always offer the poor our best and not tolerate mediocrity or slip-
       shot and unprepared work in our dealings with them.
13.  We should live lives of determination to see our work with the poor through to
       the end.
14.  We should share what we have with outsiders.
15.  We should train our students in ways of approaching the poor.
16.  We should fast and distribute the excess money to the poor.
17.  We should realize it is going take hard work to bring people out of their misery.
18.  We should know the poor so as to love them and become good at reading
       events so to hear them clearly.
19.  We are a religious family who sacrifices so to lead people out of their misery.
20.  We should respect and be friendly to the poor.
21.  We should use our possessions prudently and appropriately.

B.  How has our experience of the poor touched our hearts?

1.  It has been an experience of powerlessness.
2.  It is an experience of being dependent on God; there is only so much we can do.
3.  Our hearts have been touched with compassion at the plight of the poor.
4.  It has made us want to regular act on behalf of the poor.
5.  We have been touched by the sufferings of families now that the government has
     resigned from educating children.
6.  It has made me keep in mind my own origins so to understand the poor better.
7.  It has made me have more confidence in God.
8.  We have been moved by students stories of serving the poor and how it has
     become the centre of their vocation.
9.  I lived through WWII and all the deprivation it caused so I want to help them.
10. Experience of the poor has made me more determined to find new ways to help
      them.
11.  It is a humbling experience when you realize how little you can do.
12.  It has made me realize I? personally poor too.
13.  I dislike suffering in others and wish I could take their place.

C.  What are the behaviors and attitudes of a Vincentian who is "Of the poor and for the poor"

1.  He is simple.
2.  He lives a life of mortification.
3.  He tries to find others to help him with the poor.
4.  He does not find it an obstacle to staying with the poor because he is living
     in a community that does this.
5.  He is concerned about the Vincentian community in which he lives and does not
     isolate himself solely to serve the poor.
6.  He sees and takes initiative on behalf of the poor.
7.  He never demands things for his own well being.
8.  He experiences something and then responds immediately to the poor.
9.  He gives the poor his time and generously listens to them.
10.  He is conscious of our charism and can explain it. 
11.  He does not abandon the poor in times of trouble and war.
12.  He works more and more with other parts of the Vincentian family.
13.  He is spontaneous and outgoing towards the poor.
14.  He is accustomed to service.
15.  He is involved in developmental projects.

D.  What are the behavior and attitudes of someone who is "Of the poor but NOT for the poor"

1.  He lacks creativity and initiative.
2.  He lacks respect for community property.
3.  He lacks a spirit of co-responsibility, community spirit and a sense of responding
     to the poor with our resources as a communal decision.
4.  All his projects are based on his own individual desires.
5.  He asks for things for the poor but doesn? give it to them.
6.  He lacks interest in what the confreres are doing both in his house and province.
7.  He moves to stay with prominent and big people for his own self interest.
8.  He misappropriate money given for projects for the poor.
9.  He cares only for his own tribe.
10.  He is just for his family.
11.  They pursue and are glad about their status and their privilege.
12.  They are very self-absorbed.
13.  They lack a sense of pastoral care and do not want to be trained.
14.  They want to flee their own poverty and do not want to go back to poverty to
       serve the poor.
15.  They do not have any interest in pastoral care for the poor.
16.  They are terrified of the poor.
17.  They seek rich and influential friends.
18.  They reject the guidance of the province relative to their work and behavior.
19.  They search for promotion.
20.  They search for luxuriousness and establish a class system in the province based
       on money.
21.  They do not report their true activities.
22.  The seminarian is capable but not motivate.
23.  The student is hypocritical and motivated only by fear of being dismissed.
24.  The student lacks a spirit of self-mortification.

E.  What are signs that a Vincentian is being converted from being "Of the poor TO being of the poor and for the poor"

1.  They live their baptismal call to service deeply.
2.  They act in the name of the community always in matters of charity.
3.  The superior will be willing to give an accounting of the books.
4.  A confrere helps establish and then holds himself to whatever mechanisms of
    accountability which exist in the house.
5.  They pray?hich is a sign that something is going on.
6.  They know they must prepare themselves to work with the poor.
7.  They are willing to learn the leadership skills needed to serve the poor.
8.  It begins to dawn on the confrere that the sheep are without a shepherd and he
     is called to be that shepherd.
9.  There is a willingness to go where he is sent.
10.  As a seminarian he is open to criticism.
11.  His horizons are expanding and there is an awareness of this.
12.  You can observe steps as indicated in the outline on conversion.
13.  He is honest; he gives an honest report of his work with the poor.
14.  He accepts his own limitations.